Howdy Folks,
Kessy, like all
horses, just simply loved Diane Sept's gentle ways of teaching and
encouragement. We had started Monday afternoon to work on the trailer loading
thing, but as with all important lessons and accomplishments there was much
more underneath that Kessy needed to understand and feel good about. The first
thing Diane did yesterday was to spend about an hour just introducing herself
to Kessy. They had never met.
Diane, Kessy and Saturday getting to know each other |
It was so much
fun to watch. At liberty, Diane walked with Kessy all through her treed
pasture, mixing in relax and release exercises along the way, and weaving in
and around the trees while connecting. Eventually Diane took her to the barn to
do some serious relax and release exercises, and it was wonderful for me too,
because while over the years Diane's taught me so much, she mixed in a number
of new exercises, too.
The purpose of
this body work is not only to connect, and deal with the areas that Kessy was
"stuck," but to gradually let Kessy understand Diane was the leader.
That was new to Kessy, because while I like to think I'm a great partner, I'm
not a good leader, and as Diane explained many times to me, that's not fair to
the horse. She did tell me though, that the work Kessy and I had done together
made it possible for her to do the things she did with Kessy Monday and
yesterday, the groundwork had been laid physically and mentally.
After an hour in
the barn Diane took Kessy back out to play among the trees and in our yard,
teaching her that it's okay and proper to do what she is asked, and showing in
a kind and giving way that there are certain boundaries. That folks, is the
most remarkable thing about Diane. Before she ever works at "teaching"
a horse, or person, she takes as much time as it take to get to know and
understand the horse, the person, and the underlying information that may be
the issue. Be it health, confusion, or any number of things seemingly unrelated
to the situation she is asked to address, she works with and for the horse
building tiny steps toward the end goal.
Monday afternoon and evening she
worked with Kessy two and a half hours before they ever ambled to the trailer.
Kessy stepped right on. Then Diane went in with her and spent a good while with
her just helping Kessy understand the trailer is a comfortable place.
Yesterday started
with Diane doing more of the same with Kessy, release and relax exercises and
then leading her among the trees in ways that seemed difficult for Kessy to do. In the
most patient and encouraging way, Diane taught her that even though to Kessy,
the "other way around the tree might make more sense," Diane wanted
her to follow her path. Follow her leader. Over and over (and by golly I wish I'd have taken a few
pictures of this) Diane worked with her among the trees, instilling the thought that
Kessy must learn to politely do as she is asked, and showing her we would never
ask her to do anything she could not accomplish.
Then it was back
up to the trailer, for some on and off practice. Our good friend Chris Cooper
had come by to watch, and before we took Kessy for a test drive, I took Chris
and Diane for a ride in the trailer. They made an astonishing discovery. With
top doors off the trailer exhaust fumes came in! Is that why Kessy quit loading
after I'd taken her for a few trips? We put the top doors on before we went any
farther.
Kessy steps right in as Diane watches |
Diane and Kessy
practiced a few more on and offs, and Chris took a turn, too. Then it was time
to hand Kessy over to me. Kessy clearly mastered it, but Diane now needed to
transfer the lead to me. My weakness, with my own horse, is that I have a
harder time "being the leader" which again Diane explains is not fair
to the horse. I do better with other folks' horses. Diane explained that is not
all that uncommon either.
Diane handed Kessy to me, I loaded her easily, spent
time in the trailer with her, and loaded on and off a few more times. Then we
took Kessy for a test ride. All went perfectly, and she loaded again nicely after
the ride. It was a long day for Kessy yesterday. Diane started at 8:30 and it
was about 2:30 when we called it a day. I can tell you, Kessy loved every
minute of it.
I loved every
minute of it too, and not only had a terrific refresher course on how to be a
better partner by being a better leader, but learned some great new exercises I
can add to my "Therapy For Therapy Horses Clinics"
Thank you Diane
for all you do to help horses and their people ... If you would like to talk
with Diane about clinics or lessons please email her at dianesept@aol.com or
call 717- 336-6346
Gitty Up ~ Dutch
Henry
Most AWESOME!!!!
ReplyDeleteThanks Heather! ... Diane is truly a remarkable woman ...
DeleteWow...sounds like it was a great success. I need a refresher course myself. Thanks for sharing and happy trails in your new trailer. Mant adventures to come :)
ReplyDeleteWhat a very cool post, Dutch. I learned some good things about doing work with my horse on the ground and just taking time to "be" with him.
ReplyDeleteThank you.
Patti