Howdy Folks,
This is a story I wrote for mt Heartbeats column in Trail Blazer magazine. It ran in the Dec 2012 issue as I thought it was a perfect Christmas story. Ariana & Chy's story is truly one of love and trust.
Seeing With Her Heart
Cheyenne is a
beautiful 9 year old Paint Quarter Horse mare who loves to hit the trail, run
poles and barrels, too. She even enjoys doing a few low jumps and strutting her
stuff at Fun Shows. She's an all around great horse who since she was 2 always
took care of her person, Ariana Tomaselli, who was a young girl of 12 when they
met. The relationship between Chy, as she prefers to be called, and Ariana is a
bit different from most horse and girl partnerships, for since Chy was 3, she's
been totally blind.
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| Ariana & Chy running barrels |
Ariana met Chy 8
years ago when a friend invited her to go along to pick up her new one year old
filly, Chy. The two girls played with Chy for a while, then decided to load up
and take the playful filly home. But Chy, who had been so co-operative all
afternoon, would not step into the trailer. After trying over and over, Ariana,
acting on a hunch, carefully covered Chy's head with her jacket and lead the
filly quietly into the trailer. Even though Chy was her friend's horse, Ariana
felt the first tug at her heart for Chy that would signal the beginning of a
journey of their two spirits bound together by a powerful loving connection.
Ariana had no
horses of her own, but Chy's new home at a lovely boarding barn was only
moments from her own house and for the next 6 months her mother always knew
where to find her. At the farm playing with Chy. In fact she spent more time
with Chy than her owner did and the bond between them grew and strengthened.
They always seemed to know what the other was thinking. Together they
frolicked, sometimes even getting into trouble.
Something Was Very Wrong
Then when Chy was
just over 2 years old, she began to show signs that something was very wrong.
She would stumble and act uncoordinated. The veterinarian was summoned and Chy
was diagnosed with Equine Recurrent Uveitis (ERU) sometimes called
Moonblindness. Even though treatment was started right away, the left eye could
not be saved, and the veterinarian worried for the right eye. Ariana's friend
decided she would find a rescue that would accept Chy.
The bond between
Chy and Ariana grew stronger every day and Ariana prayed she would never lose
her friend. The threat of Chy going to a far away rescue hung heavy over both
of them. Would anyone care as deeply for Chy at a rescue? What would her future
hold? But while they had each other, they made the most of every moment. Ariana
spent countless hours brushing and fussing over Chy, hiding her tears in her
thick mane. Ariana and Chy's love for each other continued to grow and Ariana
dreamed of ways to keep her at the farm so they could stay together forever.
She was convinced that must happen when one day Chy's owner decided to ride her
in the ring. For whatever reason, Chy promptly deposited her in the dust. No
one tried to ride her after that, though Ariana wanted to. She knew Chy would
never do anything to hurt her.
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| Sitting on top of the world together |
Finally she
convinced her mother to let her ride Chy. She slipped on the mare's back,
bareback, a little worried, but happily confident too, for she knew Chy would
never harm her. Her mother led them through the pasture, Chy was a perfect
gentlewoman. The feeling of togetherness between young girl and young horse was
forged even tighter that day. Ariana insisted her mother take her to visit Chy
every day after that. In less than a week Chy was walking, trotting and even
cantering under saddle. In a few more weeks they jumped their first fence
together. This is even more incredible when you realize Ariana had only ever had
a few horseback riding lessons. Ariana said, "We just figured it out
together." But the fear of loss was still there, as the search was still
on for a rescue who would accept Chy.
The Christmas That Changed Their Lives
It started as any
ordinary Christmas a few months later, but it was about to prove to be a
Christmas that changed Ariana's life, and saved another. After Ariana opened
all her presents her mother handed her a small beautifully wrapped box. Inside
was a letter from Chy, written by Ariana's older sister. "I belong to you
now and together we will run the fields and trails forever. Love, Chy."
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| "I have no words for this mare. She is the love of my life" |
They set out to explore the world as only a girl and her horse can. At least
the world as big as the boarding farm. But there was plenty to do there and
they did it all. They rode the pastures, played games in the ring, started to
bend poles and run barrels. Chy loved to run.
Then the horror
returned. Ariana noticed Chy had problems in her right eye. For a year she and
her mother battled to save the sight in that eye. They seemed to be holding
their own. So it was perfectly natural to accept the invitation to go on their
first ever trail ride with friends. It was a 12 mile ride and the excitement
was high. Down the trail they went, Ariana confident and high spirited, Chy as
strong and safe as ever. But as they traveled along things happened that tore
out Ariana's heart. Chy stumbled, and she never stumbled. Instead of jumping a
small jump, she ran right through it. Ariana took great care to guide her
beloved horse back to the trailer.
A vet check that evening proved the worst.
Chy had lost all vision in the right eye, too. Suddenly and unexplainably.
Blaming herself,
Ariana never took Chy off the farm again. She never took her to shows and
certainly would not risk hurting her on the trails. So for 5 years they just
played together at the farm. But it was much more than play. Ariana talked to
Chy for hours on end and together they made plans and invented ways for a blind
horse to, "see the world." Ariana knew Chy loved to play. She knew
she loved to run barrels, bend poles and even jump a little. So, learning from
each other, they set out on the next phase of their journey. Ariana would help
Chy to do all the things she loved to do by, "seeing through her
heart."
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| Bending the poles together |
They put Chy in a
paddock with her friend, a safe old horse named Britches, and Ariana studied
how Chy would follow Britches by the sound of her footsteps. So she began to
lead Chy making sure to stomp her feet as a signal to step up or down, or just
be careful. She noticed how Chy would carefully use her whiskers to find the
opening in the gate or other obstacles, carefully reaching out and touching
with her nose. Ariana began to incorporate the things Chy did on her own into
how she handled her when they played. She knew they could ride again, because
Chy always listened to her and loved to play and had a heart as big as the
moon. Ariana set about inventing ways to communicate to Chy the things she
couldn't see.
First, as she led
Chy, she began to add words to her stomping feet signals. She taught Chy to,
step up, step down, slow down, and later even jump. She led her through the
poles allowing Chy to stop and touch each pole as she had seen her investigate
the gate opening. Together they learned the barrel course the same way. One
step at a time. When Chy was ready, Ariana rode her through the courses and
began to add leg and body cues to the voice cues. Their runs became flawless,
and Chy so sensitive that if Ariana got out of balance she would adjust to
rebalance her.
Eventually there came
a day when Ariana thought perhaps they could leave the farm and go to a Fun
Show. Chy loves to have fun. But Ariana still worried and it turned out her
worry caused Chy to refuse the trailer. Looking back now, Ariana says Chy knew
it was Ariana who wasn't ready. Just as Ariana was always careful to look out
for Chy, so did Chy look out for Ariana, and she knew that her partner was not
quite herself that morning. And just as sometimes she needed to adjust to
rebalance Ariana in the saddle, she made an adjustment to keep her safe that
day.
A few months later they tried again, this time
all went well. Their first Fun Show since Chy lost her sight. In every event
they entered they placed in the ribbons. They've been to a few more shows,
always placing in the ribbons. They are back on the trail too. On the trail
Ariana will always allow other horses to go ahead because she noticed Chy does
rely on a horse in front to lead the way and follows their footsteps around
obstacles.
"She's never had a bad day"
Through it all,
Chy has never had a bad day. Ariana says she never once acted mean or ever
wanted to give up. She is always willing to happily try the next new adventure.
Chy loves people, she loves fun and she loves going places and meeting new
friends. Chy and Ariana have discussed more exciting plans for their future.
They are planning to visit therapeutic riding centers and work with children
and Veterans. Ariana believes that Chy's big heart and powerful determination
to overcome her own situation will help change lives. She knows it has changed
hers.
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| Together they fly - Trusting their Hearts! |
Their journey together continues and in the near future they will begin
to invite others to be part of their journey, showing folks that circumstances
are not obstacles, just different trails to follow. And seeing with your heart
may be the very best kind of sight of all.
Gitty Up
Dutch Henry
