Howdy Folks,
Just beyond
Little Bear Bridge lays a very large mud puddle that never dries. About three
horse lengths long, wide as the logging road and pretty darn deep, Kessy has
never crossed through it. We've built a bypass around it over the
past 3 years so it's not really an issue. If you've been a Coffee Clutcher for
a while you know Kessy and puddles is a work in progress. In Kessy's defense
other horses, who from time to time ride with us, don't trust this puddle
either.
Coffee Clutch |
This being a hot,
dry summer monster puddle did dry in the middle leaving sizable puddles in the
truck tracks on both sides, and a muddy but water free 2 foot path down the
center. I should mention we pass this way both in and out every day we ride.
Kessy, Saturday
and I had such a swell ride yesterday, great bird watching, searching for fall
foliage and some really fun gaiting, and were in great spirits when we got back
to monster puddle so, I figured we'd give the middle a try. Just for fun. Kessy
marched right up to it, and stopped.
Now Kessy is a
wonderful girl, enjoys new things, most of the time, and has really come a long
way in our 3 years together – but when she says no, sometimes she means it. For
real. I was really feeling great, wearing a big ol' smile, so I gave Kessy a
pat on the neck, and asked her to "walk on." … She said,
"Nope."
Kessy has
different levels of "nope," sometimes she'll think about it and give
it a go. Other times she'll stick to her nope and that's it. She's had some
issues forced on her before we were a team, and she goes into shut-down mode,
especially if she's scared.
I backed her away
from monster puddle about 10 feet, let her study my request, the puddle and the
world. After she gave a sigh, I asked her to walk on again, and she did. Right
to the edge of the puddle, then she stopped, nice and soft, but not an inch
closer. She dropped her head and stood waiting for my next ask, which she
refused. Saturday was having a grand time in the mud and water and I thought
perhaps she'd follow, but nope.
We backed away a
few more times, soft and easy, waited for the sigh, and walked right up to the
edge and each time Kessy stopped at nearly the same place.
Still feeling
silly, still having a great morning, I remembered my Uncle Ed, an honest to
goodness cowboy who grew up on the XIT ranch in Texas, telling me years ago,
that sometimes you can help them understand by backing them trough. I'd used
this already and found it to work nicely; of course it must be a safe place.
And Kessy's a great backer, so we turned around.
Cautiously we
backed, one step at a time, all the way to the center of the monster
puddle-track. I gave her time to relax each step. She even played in the water
with her nose! We paused in the middle until Kessy was comfortable, then I
asked to walk back out again, which she did nice and smooth.
At the edge we
turned around again and I asked to walk where she'd just backed. Nope, she was
not moving.
Still in high
spirits, even laughing, I turned her around again, and she backed clean trough
to the other end! Just as smooth as can be, never missing a step. Kessy loves
her treats, so I gave her a piece of carrot.
But I wasn't
done, and Kessy, while worried, was still very engaged, so I asked her to walk
through. Nope. Not doing it. So we turned around one more time, backed all the
way through again, still soft and smooth. Turning her at the far end, I asked
for her to walk forward down the track one more time. Nope. I fell forward,
hugged her neck laughing out loud, and gave her a carrot. Then I asked her to
walk around the puddle on our bypass. She was so happy she fell right into her
running walk!
I would have
gotten off and tried to lead her, but mounting and dismounting without our
platform is tough for me right now, so we just played the best we could. We had
some fun clowning around, and one day, when she's ready, she'll march right
through monster puddle.
Gitty Up ~ Dutch
Henry